{"id":13930,"date":"2022-03-07T15:07:23","date_gmt":"2022-03-07T15:07:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/justiceandpeace.nl\/?post_type=story&p=13930"},"modified":"2024-01-18T12:24:14","modified_gmt":"2024-01-18T12:24:14","slug":"guliaim","status":"publish","type":"story","link":"https:\/\/justiceandpeace.nl\/en\/stories\/guliaim\/","title":{"rendered":"Guliaim"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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08-03-2022<\/em><\/p>\n

Written by: Diane Lemieux<\/em>
\nEdited by: Olivia Ayes<\/em><\/p>\n

‘Women are being told by different groups whom they should be and how to behave. They don\u2019t know what to do. But our women, if they want to, they can do anything.’<\/h3>\n

Guliaim never set out to be a feminist or an activist.\u00a0 ‘I didn\u2019t even realise that there was some inequality in our society until my teenage years.’<\/p>\n

She and her brother were raised fairly equally and so it came as a surprise when, in her early teens, she visited a friend whose older brother had recently married. In line with Kyrgyz tradition, the bride had moved in with her in-laws and became kelin<\/em>. ‘In our society, a kelin<\/em> is nothing,’ she says. ‘She is like a maid for her husband\u2019s family.’<\/p>\n\"\"\n

Rejecting inequality<\/h2>\n

Guliaim realised that it was only a question of time before Guliaim herself would be subjected to what she felt was a culturally accepted form of slavery. She decided that she would not, not ever, become kelin<\/em>. ‘Of course, you look after the elderly, you help them\u2026 but you have to have your own dignity, and our kelins<\/em> do not.’<\/p>\n

‘What makes me most angry is that people think that women are less than men. Why do they think that?’<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Guliaim set out to live according to her principles. She studied economics at university in Bishkek and international relations in Turkey. By not marrying her partner, she has avoided the social demands of being a daughter-in-law. But despite her best efforts, she realised that she could not isolate herself from societal expectations.<\/p>\n

On paper, she explains, Kyrgyz women have had equal rights since the early Soviet period. ‘Maybe because we Kyrgyz people were nomads, our women were always strong and independent-minded.’ But since independence in 1991, increasing conservative pressures from traditionalists and Islamists are currently eroding women\u2019s rights and freedoms.<\/p>\n

‘Women are being told by different groups whom they should be and how to behave. They don\u2019t know what to do. But our women, if they want to, they can do anything.’<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Looking for options<\/h2>\n

Many young people avoid social pressures and seek a better life by leaving the country. In fact, of the group who left at the same to study in Turkey, she is the only one to have returned. But she doesn\u2019t want to live anywhere else. She is determined to stay in Kyrgyzstan and make a difference.<\/p>\n

And so, she began commenting on social media. It didn\u2019t feel like a big thing. ‘I don\u2019t understand why in our country in the 21st<\/sup> century we still have inequality, and I was mostly writing about this on social media, and from some moment in time people started to say that I was an activist.’<\/p>\n

The final straw<\/h2>\n

And then, early one morning about five years ago, she was harassed by a man on the street. ‘I was so angry – why do you lecture me about dressing modestly?’<\/p>\n

With three friends, they decided to do a \u2018March in Shorts\u2019. They didn\u2019t think they were doing anything particularly radical: In Bishkek, women wear shorts, and they were just four friends walking on the streets. But such was Guliaim\u2019s social media reach, that it attracted the attention of the nation\u2019s media.<\/p>\n

Suddenly Guliaim and her friends were publicly recognised feminists and activists. In some ways this attention was good: many young women have told her that it is through this event that they first heard of the concept of feminism, the Bishkek Feminist Initiative, and the idea that women have a right to demand change.<\/p>\n\"\"\n

The cost of standing up<\/h2>\n

On the other hand, it triggered a barrage of hate speech and personally targeted aggression from sectors of society that don\u2019t want change. From that moment on, every event she organised attracted increasing attention until the Women\u2019s March of 2019 when participants were attacked by men in masks and the police arrested not the attackers, but the women themselves [1]<\/strong>. Guliaim retreated from the public eye after that, participating discreetly in events.<\/p>\n

The three months she spent in the Netherlands as a participant in the Shelter City initiative allowed her to recover from the emotional strain of being at the centre of public debate. She had time to reflect on the role of activists in her country, on what makes it essential that continues her work.<\/p>\n

‘In our post-Soviet countries, we have this problem. For 70 years we lived under Soviet rule when you couldn\u2019t do anything for yourself. If you plant a tree near your home, government will come and cut it. And this made us, as a nation, a little\u2026 dependent. For so many years, several generations lived like this and now we have to learn to be accountable for things that happen in our life.’<\/p>\n\"\"\n

Once an activist\u2026<\/h2>\n

Following her return home, she was determined to change the minds of young women so that they recognise their rights.<\/p>\n

‘We don\u2019t understand how precious these rights are and how other countries fought for these rights for years. We have them, let\u2019s take them, let\u2019s not lose them.’<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Her stay in Shelter City made her identify other ways in which she could contribute to improving the situation in her country. ‘Seeing so much green in the Netherlands, made me realise that I want this also in my country. If my street is without trees and my street is hot and dry, I have to do something. I don\u2019t have to sit and wait for the government to come and do it.’<\/p>\n

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Guliaim walking with the Dutch Human Rights Ambassador, Bahia Tahzib-Lie, during the Solidarity Walk in Nijmegen in 2021.<\/em><\/p><\/div>\n

Activism as a way of life<\/h2>\n

‘I want every person to be a little activist for themselves, for their families, for their street. It\u2019s small country, and it\u2019s very easy for one generation of young people to stand up and do something together. We can change our country for the better in a very short time.’<\/p>\n

[1] Barricade Online: Feminism in Kyrgyzstan \u2013 a dangerous option.<\/a><\/p>\n <\/div>\n\n \n <\/div>\n\n \n \n

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